Wedding Etiquette - The Inns

• The wedding destination
• The venue
• The rooms booked
• The etiquette one must follow in use of rooms
• Suggestions on how to carry yourself before and after wedding whether you are a bride, groom or an invited guest.

These days the destination of the wedding theme has gained popularity .The couples now make a choice of the venue of their wedding far from home. Relatives, guests, friends and family travel long way as the venue is far off. They do only to attend the function and to bless the couple to lead a happy life.

These days’ weddings are held in gardens, beaches or auditoriums. They are being charged for their usage and sometimes turn out to be economical. But these places are not built with chambers so the groom and bride feel it hard to put up . This is the reason the hotel rooms or lodges are booked which enables the people to stay over. They are blocked a week before the wedding is held. The bride, the groom and the guests should behave in the etiquette on using these inns. Everything matters including the use of these rooms.

Take for an instance that you are a groom and if you violate on use of these inns you tend to create a bad impression on everyone around. Your family reputation is in spoil. Or if you being a guest and you don’t behave in proper etiquette it might create a bad impression.

Given below is some etiquette one has to abide by when he/she attends a wedding.

Etiquette one has to follow on use of proper rooms before the day of the wedding.

1. The most basic of all is that the groom and the bride should be given different suites. It is obvious that the couple loves each other and that is what has got it to marriage. They have much time to spend with each other once the wedding is over.

2. If there is a custom that the couples should not meet each other before the wedding or there is a tradition that the groom should not see the bride in the wedding costume, they must be followed else the wedding will be called off.

3. If the couples share the same room the above custom is not abided by and thus might leave the guests stunned. If the old parents come to know this they might get a heart attack and die.

4. Also the bride should be careful enough to see to that she does not have rights to employ the maids (who work for the inn) more than she should.

5. The brides cannot take much advantage on the men who work there. They cannot ask them to walk up and down for the work to be done. They should not be screamed at unnecessarily.

6. They should not act too smart and thus behave like a lady with manners as she would get married in another few hours.

Wedding etiquette on using the rooms after the marriage is over.

1. The brides or the grooms should refrain from getting themselves a hotel souvenir .They should not flick things that they would be able to purchase easily from a super market.

2. If you are a guest do not flick the ash trays, mementos, souvenirs or towels or any comforters kept in the chambers for use. All you can do is to use them and not take it for yourself. They are things kept by the hotels and not by the grooms or brides.

No worries, the newly wed couple will of course have something nice and good to gift you.